Is God Punishing Me When I Suffer?

Is Suffering God’s Judgment?

“Now as Jesus passed by, He saw a man who was blind from birth. And His disciples asked Him, saying, “Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?'” (John 9:1, 2).

The disciples had been trained as young men in the Mosaic law which taught that God visits “the iniquity of the fathers upon the children and the children’s children to the third and the fourth generation” (Ex. 34:7).  Some ancient rabbinic writings speculated on the possibility of sinning in the womb or in a preexistent state.  The disciples’ question reflected genuine concern about the cause-effect relationship between their sin and God’s punishment on their lives or their families.

Observation of the Bible, however, reveals that the consequences of sin that come upon sinners and their descendants are usually natural consequences rather than acts of divine judgment.  Adam and Eve sinned, and their offspring grew increasingly violent (Gen. 4:1-24).  David committed adultery with Bathsheba and arranged the death of her husband (2 Sam. 11).  David’s children grew up to cause him continual distress through their violence and selfishness (12:9-12). Only in rare cases, after the long-suffering and mercy of the Lord have been exhausted, did He punish the family of Eli (1 Sam. 2:12-36) or send Israel into captivity (Hos.11:1-8; Jer. 25:1-11).

God Carries No Grudges

The concern of Jesus’ disciples about the man born blind sounds more like the superstitious fear of many people in the world that God has a special grudge against them because they have offended Him in some way.  Guilt arising from unacknowledged or unconfessed sins can distort our perception of God’s attitude toward us to the point that we expect Him to bring judgment into our lives at any moment.  Repentance, confession, and acceptance of God’s forgiveness are important ingredients for spiritual peace and good mental health.  Inner turmoil caused by a guilt conscience can cause all sorts of fears about divine punishment.

Neurotic, pessimistic, and morbid personality types are susceptible to the fear that God is out to get them for every little thing they do.  Those with a personality that tends toward depression may often feel this way.  In those cases, the emotions are the problem rather than God.  He loves us and wants to bless us with every spiritual blessing of heaven (Eph. 1:3).  It is Satan himself who tries to get us to doubt God’s intentions toward us and suspect that He takes pleasure in our suffering. (Gen. 3:4, 5); John 8:44; 2 Cor 11:3,14).

It there should be a situation in which God needs to correct our life through suffering He will let us know.  He will correct us as a godly father corrects a child, not vindictively but in a kindly fashion (Heb. 12:5-11).  Otherwise, don’t look for a heartless, cruel deity behind the pains of your life.

[Taken from: Prophecy Study Bible, John Hagee, page. 1299]


Joh 9:1  And as He passed by, He saw a man blind from birth.  2  And His disciples asked Him, saying, “Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he should be born blind?”

Exo 34:7  who keeps lovingkindness for thousands, who forgives iniquity, transgression and sin; yet He will by no means leave the guilty unpunished, visiting the iniquity of fathers on the children and on the grandchildren to the third and fourth generations.”

Gen 4:1-24  Now the man had relations with his wife Eve, and she conceived and gave birth to Cain, and she said, “I have gotten a manchild with the help of the LORD.”
2  And again, she gave birth to his brother Abel. And Abel was a keeper of flocks, but Cain was a tiller of the ground.
3  So it came about in the course of time that Cain brought an offering to the LORD of the fruit of the ground.
4  And Abel, on his part also brought of the firstlings of his flock and of their fat portions. And the LORD had regard for Abel and for his offering;
5  but for Cain and for his offering He had no regard. So Cain became very angry and his countenance fell.
6  Then the LORD said to Cain, “Why are you angry? And why has your countenance fallen?
7  “If you do well, will not your countenance be lifted up? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door; and its desire is for you, but you must master it.”
8  And Cain told Abel his brother. And it came about when they were in the field, that Cain rose up against Abel his brother and killed him.
9  Then the LORD said to Cain, “Where is Abel your brother?” And he said, “I do not know. Am I my brother’s keeper?”
10  And He said, “What have you done? The voice of your brother’s blood is crying to Me from the ground.
11  “And now you are cursed from the ground, which has opened its mouth to receive your brother’s blood from your hand.
12  “When you cultivate the ground, it shall no longer yield its strength to you; you shall be a vagrant and a wanderer on the earth.”
13  And Cain said to the LORD, “My punishment is too great to bear!
14  “Behold, Thou hast driven me this day from the face of the ground; and from Thy face I shall be hidden, and I shall be a vagrant and a wanderer on the earth, and it will come about that whoever finds me will kill me.”
15  So the LORD said to him, “Therefore whoever kills Cain, vengeance will be taken on him sevenfold.” And the LORD appointed a sign for Cain, lest anyone finding him should slay him.
16  Then Cain went out from the presence of the LORD, and settled in the land of Nod, east of Eden.
17  And Cain had relations with his wife and she conceived, and gave birth to Enoch; and he built a city, and called the name of the city Enoch, after the name of his son.
18  Now to Enoch was born Irad; and Irad became the father of Mehujael; and Mehujael became the father of Methushael; and Methushael became the father of Lamech.
19  And Lamech took to himself two wives: the name of the one was Adah, and the name of the other, Zillah.
20  And Adah gave birth to Jabal; he was the father of those who dwell in tents and have livestock.
21  And his brother’s name was Jubal; he was the father of all those who play the lyre and pipe. 22  As for Zillah, she also gave birth to Tubal-cain, the forger of all implements of bronze and iron; and the sister of Tubal-cain was Naamah.
23  And Lamech said to his wives, “Adah and Zillah, Listen to my voice, You wives of Lamech, Give heed to my speech, For I have killed a man for wounding me; And a boy for striking me;
24  If Cain is avenged sevenfold, Then Lamech seventy-sevenfold.”

2 Samuel 11

1  Then it happened in the spring, at the time when kings go out to battle, that David sent Joab and his servants with him and all Israel, and they destroyed the sons of Ammon and besieged Rabbah. But David stayed at Jerusalem.
2  Now when evening came David arose from his bed and walked around on the roof of the king’s house, and from the roof he saw a woman bathing; and the woman was very beautiful in appearance.
3  So David sent and inquired about the woman. And one said, “Is this not Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite?”
4  And David sent messengers and took her, and when she came to him, he lay with her; and when she had purified herself from her uncleanness, she returned to her house.
5  And the woman conceived; and she sent and told David, and said, “I am pregnant.”
6  Then David sent to Joab, saying, “Send me Uriah the Hittite.” So Joab sent Uriah to David.
7  When Uriah came to him, David asked concerning the welfare of Joab and the people and the state of the war.
8  Then David said to Uriah, “Go down to your house, and wash your feet.” And Uriah went out of the king’s house, and a present from the king was sent out after him.
9  But Uriah slept at the door of the king’s house with all the servants of his lord, and did not go down to his house.
10  Now when they told David, saying, “Uriah did not go down to his house,” David said to Uriah, “Have you not come from a journey? Why did you not go down to your house?”
11  And Uriah said to David, “The ark and Israel and Judah are staying in temporary shelters, and my lord Joab and the servants of my lord are camping in the open field. Shall I then go to my house to eat and to drink and to lie with my wife? By your life and the life of your soul, I will not do this thing.”
12  Then David said to Uriah, “Stay here today also, and tomorrow I will let you go.” So Uriah remained in Jerusalem that day and the next.
13  Now David called him, and he ate and drank before him, and he made him drunk; and in the evening he went out to lie on his bed with his lord’s servants, but he did not go down to his house.
14  Now it came about in the morning that David wrote a letter to Joab, and sent it by the hand of Uriah.
15  And he had written in the letter, saying, “Place Uriah in the front line of the fiercest battle and withdraw from him, so that he may be struck down and die.”
16  So it was as Joab kept watch on the city, that he put Uriah at the place where he knew there were valiant men.
17  And the men of the city went out and fought against Joab, and some of the people among David’s servants fell; and Uriah the Hittite also died.
18  Then Joab sent and reported to David all the events of the war.
19  And he charged the messenger, saying, “When you have finished telling all the events of the war to the king,
20  and if it happens that the king’s wrath rises and he says to you, ‘Why did you go so near to the city to fight? Did you not know that they would shoot from the wall?
21  ‘Who struck down Abimelech the son of Jerubbesheth? Did not a woman throw an upper millstone on him from the wall so that he died at Thebez? Why did you go so near the wall?’—then you shall say, ‘Your servant Uriah the Hittite is dead also.'”
22  So the messenger departed and came and reported to David all that Joab had sent him to tell.
23  And the messenger said to David, “The men prevailed against us and came out against us in the field, but we pressed them as far as the entrance of the gate.
24  “Moreover, the archers shot at your servants from the wall; so some of the king’s servants are dead, and your servant Uriah the Hittite is also dead.”
25  Then David said to the messenger, “Thus you shall say to Joab, ‘Do not let this thing displease you, for the sword devours one as well as another; make your battle against the city stronger and overthrow it’; and so encourage him.”
26  Now when the wife of Uriah heard that Uriah her husband was dead, she mourned for her husband.
27  When the time of mourning was over, David sent and brought her to his house and she became his wife; then she bore him a son. But the thing that David had done was evil in the sight of the LORD.

2 Sam 12:9-12  ‘Why have you despised the word of the LORD by doing evil in His sight? You have struck down Uriah the Hittite with the sword, have taken his wife to be your wife, and have killed him with the sword of the sons of Ammon.
10  ‘Now therefore, the sword shall never depart from your house, because you have despised Me and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your wife.’
11  “Thus says the LORD, ‘Behold, I will raise up evil against you from your own household; I will even take your wives before your eyes, and give them to your companion, and he shall lie with your wives in broad daylight.
12  ‘Indeed you did it secretly, but I will do this thing before all Israel, and under the sun.'”

1 Sam. 2:12-36 Now the sons of Eli were worthless men; they did not know the LORD
13  and the custom of the priests with the people. When any man was offering a sacrifice, the priest’s servant would come while the meat was boiling, with a three-pronged fork in his hand.
14  Then he would thrust it into the pan, or kettle, or caldron, or pot; all that the fork brought up the priest would take for himself. Thus they did in Shiloh to all the Israelites who came there.
15  Also, before they burned the fat, the priest’s servant would come and say to the man who was sacrificing, “Give the priest meat for roasting, as he will not take boiled meat from you, only raw.”
16  And if the man said to him, “They must surely burn the fat first, and then take as much as you desire,” then he would say, “No, but you shall give it to me now; and if not, I will take it by force.”
17  Thus the sin of the young men was very great before the LORD, for the men despised the offering of the LORD.
18  Now Samuel was ministering before the LORD, as a boy wearing a linen ephod.
19  And his mother would make him a little robe and bring it to him from year to year when she would come up with her husband to offer the yearly sacrifice.
20  Then Eli would bless Elkanah and his wife and say, “May the LORD give you children from this woman in place of the one she dedicated to the LORD.” And they went to their own home.
21  And the LORD visited Hannah; and she conceived and gave birth to three sons and two daughters. And the boy Samuel grew before the LORD.
22  Now Eli was very old; and he heard all that his sons were doing to all Israel, and how they lay with the women who served at the doorway of the tent of meeting.
23  And he said to them, “Why do you do such things, the evil things that I hear from all these people?
24  “No, my sons; for the report is not good which I hear the LORD’s people circulating.
25  “If one man sins against another, God will mediate for him; but if a man sins against the LORD, who can intercede for him?” But they would not listen to the voice of their father, for the LORD desired to put them to death.
26  Now the boy Samuel was growing in stature and in favor both with the LORD and with men.
27  Then a man of God came to Eli and said to him, “Thus says the LORD, ‘Did I not indeed reveal Myself to the house of your father when they were in Egypt in bondage to Pharaoh’s house?
28  ‘And did I not choose them from all the tribes of Israel to be My priests, to go up to My altar, to burn incense, to carry an ephod before Me; and did I not give to the house of your father all the fire offerings of the sons of Israel?
29  ‘Why do you kick at My sacrifice and at My offering which I have commanded in My dwelling, and honor your sons above Me, by making yourselves fat with the choicest of every offering of My people Israel?’
30  “Therefore the LORD God of Israel declares, ‘I did indeed say that your house and the house of your father should walk before Me forever’; but now the LORD declares, ‘Far be it from Me—for those who honor Me I will honor, and those who despise Me will be lightly esteemed.
31  ‘Behold, the days are coming when I will break your strength and the strength of your father’s house so that there will not be an old man in your house.
32  ‘And you will see the distress of My dwelling, in spite of all that I do good for Israel; and an old man will not be in your house forever.
33  ‘Yet I will not cut off every man of yours from My altar that your eyes may fail from weeping and your soul grieve, and all the increase of your house will die in the prime of life.
34  ‘And this will be the sign to you which shall come concerning your two sons, Hophni and Phinehas: on the same day both of them shall die.
35  ‘But I will raise up for Myself a faithful priest who will do according to what is in My heart and in My soul; and I will build him an enduring house, and he will walk before My anointed always.
36  ‘And it shall come about that everyone who is left in your house shall come and bow down to him for a piece of silver or a loaf of bread, and say, “Please assign me to one of the priest’s offices so that I may eat a piece of bread.”‘”

1 Sam 11:1-8   Now Nahash the Ammonite came up and besieged Jabesh-gilead; and all the men of Jabesh said to Nahash, “Make a covenant with us and we will serve you.”
2  But Nahash the Ammonite said to them, “I will make it with you on this condition, that I will gouge out the right eye of every one of you, thus I will make it a reproach on all Israel.”
:3  And the elders of Jabesh said to him, “Let us alone for seven days, that we may send messengers throughout the territory of Israel. Then, if there is no one to deliver us, we will come out to you.”
4  Then the messengers came to Gibeah of Saul and spoke these words in the hearing of the people, and all the people lifted up their voices and wept.
5  Now behold, Saul was coming from the field behind the oxen; and he said, “What is the matter with the people that they weep?” So they related to him the words of the men of Jabesh.
6  Then the Spirit of God came upon Saul mightily when he heard these words, and he became very angry.
7  And he took a yoke of oxen and cut them in pieces, and sent them throughout the territory of Israel by the hand of messengers, saying, “Whoever does not come out after Saul and after Samuel, so shall it be done to his oxen.” Then the dread of the LORD fell on the people, and they came out as one man.
8  And he numbered them in Bezek; and the sons of Israel were 300,000, and the men of Judah 30,000.

Jer. 25:1-11  The word that came to Jeremiah concerning all the people of Judah, in the fourth year of Jehoiakim the son of Josiah, king of Judah (that was the first year of Nebuchadnezzar king of Babylon),
2  which Jeremiah the prophet spoke to all the people of Judah and to all the inhabitants of Jerusalem, saying,
3  “From the thirteenth year of Josiah the son of Amon, king of Judah, even to this day, these twenty-three years the word of the LORD has come to me, and I have spoken to you again and again, but you have not listened.
4  “And the LORD has sent to you all His servants the prophets again and again, but you have not listened nor inclined your ear to hear,
5  saying, ‘Turn now everyone from his evil way and from the evil of your deeds, and dwell on the land which the LORD has given to you and your forefathers forever and ever;
6  and do not go after other gods to serve them and to worship them, and do not provoke Me to anger with the work of your hands, and I will do you no harm.’
7  “Yet you have not listened to Me,” declares the LORD, “in order that you might provoke Me to anger with the work of your hands to your own harm.
8  “Therefore thus says the LORD of hosts, ‘Because you have not obeyed My words,
9  behold, I will send and take all the families of the north,’ declares the LORD, ‘and I will send to Nebuchadnezzar king of Babylon, My servant, and will bring them against this land, and against its inhabitants, and against all these nations round about; and I will utterly destroy them, and make them a horror, and a hissing, and an everlasting desolation.
10  ‘Moreover, I will take from them the voice of joy and the voice of gladness, the voice of the bridegroom and the voice of the bride, the sound of the millstones and the light of the lamp.
11  ‘And this whole land shall be a desolation and a horror, and these nations shall serve the king of Babylon seventy years.

Eph. 1:3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ,

Gen. 3:4 – 5 And the serpent said to the woman, “You surely shall not die!  5  “For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”

John 8:44 “You are of your father the devil, and you want to do the desires of your father. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. Whenever he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own nature; for he is a liar, and the father of lies.

2 Cor 11:3. 14 But I am afraid, lest as the serpent deceived Eve by his craftiness, your minds should be led astray from the simplicity and purity of devotion to Christ. 14  And no wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light.

Heb. 12:5-11 and you have forgotten the exhortation which is addressed to you as sons, “MY SON, DO NOT REGARD LIGHTLY THE DISCIPLINE OF THE LORD, NOR FAINT WHEN YOU ARE REPROVED BY HIM;
6  FOR THOSE WHOM THE LORD LOVES HE DISCIPLINES, AND HE SCOURGES EVERY SON WHOM HE RECEIVES.”
7  It is for discipline that you endure; God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom his father does not discipline?
8  But if you are without discipline, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate children and not sons.
9  Furthermore, we had earthly fathers to discipline us, and we respected them; shall we not much rather be subject to the Father of spirits, and live?
10  For they disciplined us for a short time as seemed best to them, but He disciplines us for our good, that we may share His holiness.
11  All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness.